Archive for July, 2008

I don’t know if I’ve posted this before, I’m a bit lazy to back track my articles. 
Well, I found this in my excess email folder and thought of posting it here. 
The title is the title above.


In a brief conversation, a man, speaking to a woman, was out to pursue the question, “What kind of man are you looking for?”

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asked, “Do you really want to know?”

Reluctantly, he said, “Yes” as she began to expound…

“As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can’t do for myself.

I pay my own bills.

I take care of my household without the help of any man- or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?'”

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

She quickly corrected his thought and stated, “I am not referring to money… I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life.”

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.

She said,

“I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection Mentally. I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man.

I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection Spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked… Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for perfection Financially because I don’t need a financial… burden.

I am looking for someone who is Sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but Strong enough to keep me grounded.

I am looking for someone who I can Respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive.. . He just has to be worthy.

God made woman to be a helpmate for man. At this point, I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself.”

When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face, and exclaimed, “You’re asking for a whole lot!”

To which she gracefully replied…

“Only if you think I’m not WORTH a lot.”



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where to?

I don’t know where to start.
Whenever I hold on to my pen and look at the paper, my mind goes blank. But When I stop, thoughts overflows from my head.
Just like loving you.  Everytime I look at  you my heart jumps and thoughts run through my mind. But the moment you start asking what I was thinking…I couldn’t say anything. Why?
Because my heart is filled with so much emotion that I feel words wouldn’t be enough to explain everything.
There’s so many things that I wanted to say. So many feelings that I wanted you to feel and it frightens me.
They say that I always become so stupid when I’m in love.  I tend to love that person too much that I would come to the point that there’s nothing left for myself. Eventhough I always end up getting hurt, I would still continue on loving. I don’t know why i give myself that kind of torture. Maybe I just wanted to make my loved one feel how much I care.
That’s why I felt so frightened to give you all that I have. I need to clear that fear away from my heart. I need to take that ghost down. 
I hope you would understand why I’m scared after reading this. I just don’t know how to say this to you and worse..even where to start.

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